RELATIONSHIP
ADVICE vs. RELATIONSHIP HELP
"There
are times when you need simple relationship advice,
then there are times when your relationship simply
needs help. I deliver both." - Monte Jamison,
Relationshp Guide
The
funny thing about relationships is that all of them
have periods of highs and lows. The highs can be really
high, and the lows can be really low.
But how do you now if you need simple relationship
advice, or if your relationship needs help in order
to get you through the low times? Let’s take
a look at the difference between the two and the advantages
of both.
Say
you and your mate are in the midst of a disagreement.
You love each other, but this one thing is keeping
you from achieving the next level. You both have strong
opinions about a subject that is effecting decisions
like where you live, where the kids go to school,
whether or not to get a pet, how to handle the needs
of an aging parent, things like that. Your disagreements
make you mad at one another, but not enough that either
of you want to break up. Times like these are
when you need relationship advice. Someone who
can listen your needs and tell you what to do to get
to a common middle ground you can both live with.
Ok,
now say you and your mate’s disagreements turn
into fights. You begin to disrespect and despise one
another, but somewhere deep inside you realize that
you do not want to live without each other. Yet even
with that deep level of love, you have lost respect.
You cannot find a way to communicate without hurting
each other’s feelings. You often talk about
leaving the relationship but you want to give it one
more try so you do not regret walking out. This
is when you need relationship help. You need
a neutral party that can help you and your significant
other air out your feelings. You each need to address
your emotions with this person so you can lift a weight
off of your relationship. Then, you need to understand
why you each feels the way you do.
I
don’t think enough people seek relationship
advice or relationship help. I find that folks want
to remain private because they are embarrassed or
they don’t want to “air their dirty laundry”
in front of another person. This is the quickest way
to send your relationships down the toilet. You need
fresh air in your life to help you breathe. Dirty
laundry stinks.
If
you have hit a snag in your relationship, clean the
air. Don’t be embarrassed to seek advice or
get help. If you really love your mate, it’s
worth it. You can talk to me. My relationship advice
works. My approach to helping you is fresh and different
than the same old psychobabble you hear on TV. If
you really want to know the secret to living a lifetime
of happiness with your lifetime partner, I will tell
you what it is. Read my book or schedule a live telephone
relationship counseling session now.
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