RELATIONSHIP
ADVICE: HOW TO IMPROVE RELATIONSHIPS
"One
of the most important things people need to do to
improve their relationships is to use the “CS”
approach when they talk to other people." - Monte
Jamison
If
you use "CS", your relationships will improve
and your life will improve too. So what
is “CS?” It’s simply “common
sense”. And how do you use common sense in communication?
It’s simple, stop talking and learn to listen.
You may be
able to think on your feet and respond to things quickly,
and that is a good thing, but you still need to learn
how to keep quiet sometimes. Every
salesperson in the country has to learn one thing
if they’re going to be successful, and that
is to know when to stop talking. There comes a time
in every sale where you have said everything that
needs to be said, you’ve given your presentation,
you’ve shown the value in your product, you’ve
done it all. And if a salesperson keeps talking, what
do they end up doing? They end up talking themselves
out of a sale. And you do the same in everyday life,
you will talk yourself out of happiness. If you spend
all your time talking to a person you and never give
them a chance to talk back, you will talk yourself
out of being with that person.
So the best relationship advice on
how to improve relationships is: listen to what the
other person is saying, use your mind to take that
input and then use some common sense to formulate
a response. I can’t count the number of relationships
ruined by people that won’t take the time to
listen. Fathers hate sons, mothers hate daughters,
ex-husbands hate ex-wives... all because they didn’t
listen, but they sure talked!
In
your everyday life you can find instances where you
could improve your relationship by listening, not
talking. There is a saying I believe in that goes
like this “God gave you two ears and only one
mouth, you should listen twice as much as you speak.”
Any man or woman on this earth that has a little bit
of wisdom will use it to their advantage.
For more relationship advice that
can help you instantly improve your relationships,
read my book now.
In its pages you will learn the secret to living a
lifetime of happiness a your lifetime partner.
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