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RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR SINGLES
"The relationship advice for singles who want to be in a successful relationship is pretty simple:
You have to start dating the RIGHT WAY." - Monte Jamison, Relationship Guide

Your dream partner is not just going to knock on your door one day and say “I’m here!” You see, successful relationships happen in 5 stages. First, there is acquaintance, where you encounter people when you first meet. Next, there is attraction, when your connection warrants further exploration. Interest soon follows. This is when you realize you want to learn more about a person. If you find your feelings have wings, you may experience infatuation, when people connect for more than just a few days, exploring several aspects of togetherness. Finally, there is commitment, when you feel compelled to come together with a person and that person only.

 

So where can you meet your potential spouse? Typically, singles go to places to meet people with the worst potential for success. While there are exceptions, most meaningful relationships do not happen in bars or clubs. So what is wrong with meeting people in a bar? On the surface, nothing - trouble is, the best intentions in this environment are surrounded by an atmosphere inconsistent with burgeoning love and lasting relationships. Depending on the time of day, bars attract serial daters, sports fans, angry co-workers, the unemployed and the anti-social. Loud noises, music, smoke and dim lighting in high-traffic areas are not an environment for meaningful conversation and undivided attention.

Another place singles may turn to is an online dating website. These websites can provide you with several acquaintances in a short amount of time, but this type of meeting is not without side effects. What are the disadvantages? You never know what a person is like until you meet them face to face. Online dating focuses on statistics, or what you say, or how you look. You can say anything to anyone, even if they are all lies. Dating websites also put you in the mix with thousands and thousands of others. You are never “the one”. There is always someone else just a mouse click away.

Then there is speed dating, where you meet to pass yourself among several prospective candidates you know nothing about, sort of like a game of human hot potato. In the course of three to five minutes, your goal is to learn enough about someone to judge whether they are worthy of a second look. If you are no good at thinking on your feet, you will still be alone at the end of the night. Worse, you will have paid for the privilege of being humiliated in public. There are alternatives.

The best relationship advice for singles is simple: take notice of the world around you and take advantage of the every day opportunities that present themselves. Engage people in conversation and be inviting to others. For example, do you smile when you pass people by? Do you acknowledge the person next in line while you are waiting at the bank, or at least say hello? Do you say an extra word or two when receiving customer service? If not, you may be wasting opportunities. A potential soul mate might not be the person you would expect it to be, but if you know yourself, take advantage of everyday opportunities, and get to know another person over time, you may find the person you have been hoping for has been close to you all along.

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Monte Jamison, EzineArticles.com Platinum Author 

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