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RELATIONSHIP
ADVICE FOR SINGLES
"The
relationship
advice for singles who want to be in a successful
relationship is pretty simple:
You have to start dating the RIGHT WAY."
- Monte Jamison, Relationship Guide
Your
dream partner is not just going to knock on your door
one day and say “I’m here!”
You see, successful relationships happen in 5 stages.
First, there is acquaintance, where you encounter
people when you first meet. Next, there is attraction,
when your connection warrants further exploration.
Interest soon follows. This is when you realize you
want to learn more about a person. If you find your
feelings have wings, you may experience infatuation,
when people connect for more than just a few days,
exploring several aspects of togetherness. Finally,
there is commitment, when you feel compelled to come
together with a person and that person only.
So
where can you meet your potential spouse? Typically,
singles go to places to meet people with the worst
potential for success. While there are exceptions,
most meaningful relationships do not happen in bars
or clubs. So what is wrong with meeting people in
a bar? On the surface, nothing - trouble is, the best
intentions in this environment are surrounded by an
atmosphere inconsistent with burgeoning love and lasting
relationships. Depending on the time of day, bars
attract serial daters, sports fans, angry co-workers,
the unemployed and the anti-social. Loud noises, music,
smoke and dim lighting in high-traffic areas are not
an environment for meaningful conversation and undivided
attention.
Another
place singles may turn to is an online dating website.
These websites can provide you with several acquaintances
in a short amount of time, but this type of meeting
is not without side effects. What are the disadvantages?
You never know what a person is like until you meet
them face to face. Online dating focuses on statistics,
or what you say, or how you look. You can say anything
to anyone, even if they are all lies. Dating websites
also put you in the mix with thousands and thousands
of others. You are never “the one”. There
is always someone else just a mouse click away.
Then
there is speed dating, where you meet to pass yourself
among several prospective candidates you know nothing
about, sort of like a game of human hot potato. In
the course of three to five minutes, your goal is
to learn enough about someone to judge whether they
are worthy of a second look. If you are no good at
thinking on your feet, you will still be alone at
the end of the night. Worse, you will have paid for
the privilege of being humiliated in public. There
are alternatives.
The
best relationship advice for singles is simple: take
notice of the world around you and take advantage
of the every day opportunities that present themselves.
Engage people in conversation and be inviting to others.
For example, do you smile when you pass people by?
Do you acknowledge the person next in line while you
are waiting at the bank, or at least say hello? Do
you say an extra word or two when receiving customer
service? If not, you may be wasting opportunities.
A potential soul mate might not be the person you
would expect it to be, but if you know yourself, take
advantage of everyday opportunities, and get to know
another person over time, you may find the person
you have been hoping for has been close to you all
along.
To
learn more, read my book now. It contains the secrets
to finding a lasting love. It's easy to read and easy
to understand. If you are willing to listen, it could
change your life forever.
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