RELATIONSHIP
ADVICE FOR MEN
"Men
can experience difficulty with their relationship
once the initial attraction of the relationship wears
off. "
- Monte Jamison, Relationship Guide
Men experience significant changes in
life on the road to greater responsibility and maturity.
We learn that powerful emotions exist
beyond the bedroom. Suddenly, dealing with bigger
issues like commitment, personal space, and spending
time on things you both like to do take center stage.
With hearts of ancient warriors, know power, prestige,
and authority - not tenderness and compassion. So
here's a little relationship advice for men that can
go a long way if you want a long lasting relationship:
Commitment
means more than “showing up” for a relationship.
It means being there when it matters most, when times
are tough and your partner needs a reassuring hug
or a kind word of encouragement. It means building
bridges to a greater sense of security, counting on
that person to be around for more than just physical
affection. This is where lovers become friends, the
opposite of what we might expect. Don’t discount
the power of simple conversation to make people feel
more connected, more secure, more in tune with you.
We
ALL need personal space. Personal
space is a huge issue for people in relationships.
You’ll want yours, so you need to respect hers.
Your partner may have friends and family she’s
relied on for emotional support, relationship advice,
and companionship, people she’s known for years.
This is part of who she is, and a mutual respect of
this social breathing room will cement a sense of
appreciation between you. Sharpen your social skills
not only for her, but also for the people, places,
and things that make her want to be around you.
Interests
and hobbies also play a part in successful relationships.
You may not have many, but you and your loved one's
can be diametrically opposed. You want to watch the
game on TV, she wants to take the dog for a walk;
you like loud music, she prefers a quiet evening with
a good book. She likes art, you could care less. Here
enters the art of dancing through conflict and compromise.
Find common ground or learn to appreciate the things
you’re not crazy about today. The benefits to
your relationship are worth trying something different
at least once.
Relationship
Advice For Men That Works:
•
Be patient – with yourself
and with her. Love and happiness is like a gravel
road - the more you tread its surface, the smoother
it becomes.
•
Look for signals – Pay attention
to visual clues, body language, not what she says,
but how she says it. You’ll soon gain an intuition
as to how she’s feeling, and what you can do
to either turn it around or let the sun shine in.
•
Learn to let go – Don’t
smother her or try to force your way as the only way.
Growing into each other is the slow and steady course
to staying together.
•
Money doesn’t change everything
– Money is just the most common point of contention
in a relationship, that’s all. Where it comes
from, where it goes, how much you have... Despite
the rumor, money and gifts can’t fix relationships
– so don’t expect them to.
•
Little things mean alot – If
you really want some good loving, give her a gift
from your heart. It doesn’t have to be a diamond
ring. I can be a card, a flower, a kiss, a bit of
free verse, a special trip on the way home. Be creative,
and you will bring her closer than ever.
For
more relationship advice for men that works, read
my book today. In its pages you will learn how to
fill your life with love while you achieve lifetime
happiness with your lifetime partner.
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